With over 16 million workout videos sold since 1980, Kathy Smith has become a household name in fitness. A mother of two, Kathy also serves on the board of the USC School of Gerontology, the Women's Sports Foundation and is a recipient of the IDEA Lifetime Achievement Award from IDEA Health & Fitness, the world's largest professional fitness organization.
Turning My World Upside-Down
Who doesn’t love a good quick fix?
We all want to go from A directly to Z, skipping all the steps in between. This is an age of super-efficiency and short attention spans, and none of us have an excess of time or patience.
Today I learned a little something about the power of delayed gratification. I’ve been going to Yoga Works here in Santa Monica for several years, and I usually take my friend Kathryn Budig’s class twice a week. Kathryn is, among many other things, the queen of handstands - and I set a goal for myself, after many attempts and tumbles, to be able to hold a true handstand, without the help/safety net of a wall. This morning, I finally did it - a legitimate handstand! Time seems to stand still when you’re upside-down, so I’m not sure if it was for two seconds or twenty, but one thing’s for sure: it happened.
I’m not sure why this particular pose has alluded me for so many years. I’ve always used an excuse about my limbs being too long, making it biomechanically more difficult for me . . . but don’t get me started on the subject of excuses. After years of consistent practice, I finally learned to take the pressure out of my traps and use my lats for support - meaning that I had to force myself NOT to strain my neck and shoulders, and engage my back muscles, in order to find the center of my stability.
Perhaps this seems like a pretty minor victory . . . but it was such an exciting feeling to accomplish this. There’s something childlike about doing a handstand - perhaps it’s the occasional awkward stumbles, mixed with the feeling of rebellion that comes with going upside-down. (And then there’s the “high” you feel as all the blood rushes to your head.) Kathryn knew it was a big day for me. Toward the end of class, she came over and congratulated me by saying, “Your yoga is going to go to a whole new place starting today.”
In fitness, and in life, we’re often disappointed when things don’t happen overnight. But don’t be afraid to think big, and long-term: When you accomplish something you once thought was impossible, the payoff exceeds all your expectations. Who knew that something as small as a handstand could be such a turning point - both literally and figuratively?
























